I believe that first dates are meant to be light and airy as you spend time getting to know someone. Most women in their 50s and 60s don’t realize they have choices they didn’t have in their 20s as to how a man can fit in their life. Men can be your lover, your friend, your boyfriend, your companion, your friend with benefits, your husband, or nothing. You get to decide. These choices give you the luxury of taking some time to discover a man’s personality without having to quickly assess him by using what I call The Dating Resume Questions. These are questions that you fire off one after the other like: How many kids do you have? What do you do? What type of relationship are you looking for? How many times have you been married? Questions like…